185Four Said

07/04 - 07/20

Dont stunt your growth trying to be loyal.

6/18 - 6/25

Life is the dancer and you are the dance.

5/6 - 5/10

To be successful, the first thing to do is fall in love with your work..

01.14 - 01.24

What Is The Difference Between Hard Work And Smart Work? Key differenceHard Work is when one does some workdedicatedly. Smart work is when someone does the same amount of work, but faster and more efficiently.


01.03 - 01.07

You must learn a new way to think before you can learn a new way to be.

11.29 - 12.06

Kites rise highest against the wind - not with it.



10.22 - 11.06

“The only way to consciously deactivate a thought is to activate another. “



09.18 - 09.28

In   some   cases,   the   mental   image   or   concept   of   “my   body”   is   a complete   distortion   of   reality.   A   young   woman   may   think   of   herself   as overweight and therefore starve herself when in 
fact she is quite thin. She cannot see her body anymore. All she “sees” is the mental concept of her body,   which says “I am fat” or “I will become fat.”    



10.13 - 10.22

“Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world.” 



08.27 - 09.07

If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. 


07.30 - 08.09

99% of the time, its not as bad as we think it is going to be.



07.14 - 07.29

You must first be selfish enough to align with WELLBEING.




06.11 - 06.22

Attention, Attitude & precision ... 


05.23 - 06.06

“The only way to consciously deactivate a thought is to activate another. In other words,

the only way to deliberately withdraw your attention from one thought is to give your attention to another.


05.06 - 05.21

Every thing we've experienced from the moment we were born -

til this present moment, is the very reason we are who we are today.



05.03 - 05.11

Never take advice from a person that hasn't been anywhere you desire to go. 



04.12 - 04.18

Become comfortable with not knowing.


04.04 - 04.11

Staying present is an ongoing practice.


03.26 - 04.04

Why must we insist on extincting ourselves?




03.13.18 - 03.25.18

Pollute your mind -- Pollute your worth.



03.1.18 - 03.9.18

The only way to get rid of old memories is to make new one's.



02.14.18 - 02.28.18

If "down" didn't exist, would "up" be important?


01.11.18- 01.17.18

How can you know what to do next, if you haven't quite figured out what do first?

01.01.18 - 01.10.18

How can you feed your brain if it is already full? 

12.17.17 - 12.27.17

Do you know how to put yourself in the place of your problems? 



12.07.17 - 12.14.17

If you want people to believe in you, give the people something to believe in. 



11.28.17 - 12.02.17

Never allow someone to pull you out of

character, It is a sign of lack of self control. And people

with "No Self Control" can't be trusted,

 Can they?



11.20.17 - 11.26.17

You do realize, If you really wanted to transform your life, you would have done it already.






11.7.17 - 11.17.17

Your business isn't the failure, your attitude is.


10.31.17 - 11.6.17

"Why do you care so much about what other people think?"

10.18.17 - 10.24.17

"In order for the formless to shine through more strongly, the form must first begin to dissolve."


10.10.17 - 10.17.17

"Are you what you say you are or are you what others say you are?"


Would you let a figment of someone else's imagination alter the way you live you own life?


What is your definiton of a drama queen?


When do you know you had enough?


The more you talk, the more likely you are to make a fool of yourself.


Do You Daydream, Think A Lot, and Live Inside Your Head?


""Denial: The action of declaring something to be untrue."

Reactions produce outcomes. 


"Some of the darkest places are created from the brightest light."


"Do you judge others because you fear how they may judge you?"  


"It is impossible to reach your destination if you do not already know where you are." 


"Gossip travels at the speed of boredom."


"What's an awakening without sleep? Privilege?"


"Never confront your your partner about cheating if you are not prepared to do something about it."


 "Your work is a mirror image of where you stand in life.  Do you want more? Could you be doing more?


How many hours per day do you spend giving someone/something else your time, energy and attention? 


"If you can't ever shut the f*ck up and listen, you'll never learn."


"It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be."


"If you really wanted it, you would've already had it. "


"The evolution of a habit is a gene."


"To know another human being in their essence, you don't really need to know anything about them — their past, their history, their story."


"The Internet is not intelligent. The internet connects you with intelligent people. "


"Who's to blame for the poison being consumed?  The chef or the consumer who didn't read the ingredients?"


Stop resisting life before life starts resisting you.


The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.


By not making a decision,   you've already made a decision.


Do you ever ask yourself, "Why would 'they' do that?"  --  You are looking for yourself in someone else's situation and ultimately you're unhappy in your own.

Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve.


Never fall in love. Love is a poison. Once you fall in love, you lose control over your life -- your heart and mind belong to someone else. Your existence is threatened.


I am not my thoughts, emotions, sense perceptions, and experiences. I am not the content of my life. I am Life. I am the space in which all things happen. I am consciousness. I am the Now. I Am.


The mind exists in a state of “not enough” and so is always greedy for more. When you are identified with mind, you get bored and restless very easily. Boredom means the mind is hungry for more stimulus, more food for thought, and its hunger is not being satisfied.


When you get into your car, shut the door and be there for just half a minute. Breathe, feel the energy inside your body, look around at the sky, the trees. The mind might tell you, 'I don't have time.' But that's the mind talking to you. Even the busiest person has time for 30 seconds of space.


You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is a different one, each day brings a miracle of its own. It's just a matter of paying attention to this miracle. 


You drown not by falling into a river, but by staying submerged in it.


"We are afraid of losing what we have, whether it's our life or our possessions and property. But this fear evaporates when we understand that our life stories and the history of the world were written by the same hand.   --The Alchemist"


To know another human being in their essence, you don’t really need to know anything about them–their past, their history, their story. We confuse knowing about with a deeper knowing that is non-conceptual. Knowing about and knowing are totally different modalities. One is concerned with form, the other with the formless. One operates through thought, the other through stillness.


We are our moms. We are our dads. We are our life.


We are all born perfect, then we learn how to imperfect ourselves.


You discover that a “bored person” is not who you are. Boredom is simply a conditioned energy movement within you. Neither are you an angry, sad, or fearful person. Boredom, anger, sadness, or fear are not “yours,” not personal. They are conditions of the human mind. They come and go. Nothing that comes and goes is you. “I am bored.” Who knows this? “I am angry, sad, afraid.” Who knows this? You are the knowing, not the condition that is known.


In your dealings with people, can you detect subtle feelings of either superiority or inferiority toward them? You are looking at the ego, which lives through comparison.


Whenever you are immersed in compulsive thinking, you are avoiding what is. You don’t want to be where you are. Here, Now.


If people like you, they'll listen to you, but if they trust you, they'll do business with you. 


People don't realize that now is all there ever is; there is no past or future except as memory or anticipation in your mind. 


Thoughts are fine when we don't confuse them with who we are, and then thoughts are not a problem. Thinking is a wonderful tool to create things in this world. It only becomes problematic and a source of suffering when we confuse thinking with who we are. 


Was Jesus the son of God? Yes. But so are you. You just haven't realized it yet. 


If the power for creating a better future is contained in the present moment: You create a good future by creating a good present, Right?


Do you identify your sense of self with the problems you have, or think you  have?


If there are people you haven't forgiven, you're not going to awaken. You have to let go. 


Some people awaken spiritually without ever coming into contact with any meditation technique or any spiritual teaching. They may awaken simply because they can't stand the suffering anymore.  


Do not wait to be successful at some future point. Have a successful relationship with the present moment and be fully present in whatever you are doing. That is real success. 


In order to get the most out of life, we must first make the most out of ourselves.